Pondering why so many “Doms” declare that a woman with a strong personality is not submissive.
If you don’t run every time I snap my fingers… you are not submissive.
If you have an opinion… you are not submissive.
If you stand up to me… you are not submissive.
If you do not always agree with me without question… you are not submissive.
If you debate me… you are not submissive.
If you have friends and interests of your own… you are not submissive.
If you do not sit at home alone waiting for me to summon you… you are not submissive.
If you do not defer to me at every turn… you are not submissive.
Let me be clear here… BULLSHIT.
Anyone can Dom a doormat. Just as anyone can tightly tie up a woman and tell her not to move. I prefer to place her arm and tell her not to move it - with the full knowledge that she will not.
Anyone can de-claw a cat and rest assured it will not scratch. I desire a woman with claws fully sharpened that keeps them retracted only for me.
I adore strong women. I desire strong women. I respect strong women.
I know there are many out there that enjoy a completely passive submissive - and completely passive submissives that desire to be passive - this is not aimed at you. It is aimed directly at those that desire to put on their Dom hats and automatically be respected for no other reason than they proclaim what they are.
Said simply and eloquently. I want your submission when I have earned it, and when you are willing to give me everything you can. I want the best of you not only in the bedroom, but outside as well. I want you to challenge me to push you harder and further, but that makes me as challenged to do so. It is not simply about serving, its is about serving to grow.
Well said words of D/s wisdom
A very angry mom with a belt teaches her a very real lesson.